Etiquette for Gay Mistresses

- your man thinks about you, and sometimes, even if he has his primary in his arms.
- always feel good about yourself. you must have been that HOT for your man to risk this affair.
- enjoy the moments together, however few and far between these may be. have fun with the agreements AND the disagreements.
- go on and continue dating. that will always be your prerogative. the beauty of this is in the moment.
- the less you expose him to your world, the better actually. let him be 'mr big' of carrie bradshaw. sometimes there sometimes not. oh i know, sometimes it would be great if you could shout this love to the whole world. but sometimes, quiet joy is best!
- question not the circumstances, the love of your man. let the love behaviors speak for themselves.
- make sure you have your own life. continue doing that - going out with your friends, doing stuff you like. dont let your world revolve around your man. perhaps that is what he liked about you in the 1st place!