Musings of an LGBTQ Catholic with a long history of wrestling with his demons
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Dating and the Single PLU
Hey single PLU's and doubles playing single. =)
quick survey on dating habits - do you do blind dates? - do you have sex on the 1st date? - do you have multiple dating partners or do you date 'exclusively' with one?
- do you do blind dates? i like to... but haven't tried.
- do you have sex on the 1st date? definitely No... but if there's a magic, why not. Can't say.
- do you have multiple dating partners or do you date 'exclusively' with one? i tried dating 2 at the same night (one after the other)... hassle... but its ok to have multiple dates... that's why its called a "date" - we're in a search.
1. curious ako about blind dating at gusto ko itry. but get ready kasi baka maging anthony marentino and standford blatch ang mangyari. hahaha! that episode was so funny!
2. why not if you hit it right on the first date? sex will still be sex even if you do it the on the 10th date. better yet be ready to get disappointed if you have sex on the 15th date and then i didnt turn out good. sayang lang. hahaha!
3. If i'm in a commitment, exclusive lang talaga. pero kung date lang at hindi pa kami, i can see other people naman siguro. there's a big difference between in a relationship and dating.
1. Used to. Yes. 2. Why not? Especially if there is no long term prospect (paksyet. pokpok talaga, folks). 3. Yes (Hindi rin vague, noh???) Seriously, the latter unless someone really special comes along.
So far: Q1: all five are positive. 4 havent tried but are willing Q2: why not - 3, sometimes - 1, try to delay - 2 Q3: no dates currently - 1, does multiple partner dating - 4
=)
thanks, people. on a separate post, ill answer those questions, too!
[1] I don't think I've ever really gone on a date date. And I don't want to date an invalid who can't read the check unless it's in Braille.
[2] Since I've never gone on a date, no. Will I do it? If we're both consenting adults, why not? Will I ALWAYS have sex on the first date? No. But actually the chances of me having sex is FAR GREATER than me going on a date.
[3] Since I've never gone on a date... what the f**k am I answering this quick survey for?! LOL
Blind date >>> So far I havent experience blind date but why not? Im open to it as long the date is arranged by a friend
1st date Sex >>> I had some dates like that if I feel we have an instant connection lets do it! and lets see what happens next :D
Dates >>> Multiple dates? also known as dating, meeting new people, getting to know them & when I feel we have feelings for each other thats the time it become exclusive
1. I once wished I were blind on one date. hehe. But, no, haven't been into one. I would like to, but never had the chance. He must have at least a good recommendation form a friend, but I don't have much PLU friend, so no chance.
2. I'm innately Maria Clara. But sadly all dates ended in bed, except for two. One became my bf, the other, will be giving me a puppy this weekend. But as always, my mind says "no, wait", but my bod says "yessss, fuck me pare."
3. Dunno why, but it has always been either El nino or La Nina for me. Either its drought time or its raining men. Its ok so long as you don't fall for more then one. :)
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1. can ebs be considered blind dates (kc minsan kahit may face pix na sya, eh gulat ka parin pag nakita mo ng personal, hehehe. so i guess i do blind dates
2. seb, definitely! :)
3. i wish i had, para naman di ako mabato habang nag hihintay ng someone i can call my baby... haaayyy
1. Blind Dates - gusto ko pero takot ako, saka walang nagrereto sa akin!
ReplyDelete2. Virgin pa ako! Charot! I try as much as I can not to. But normally, no. Para naman may excitement factor for the next date.
3. I have neither. Lol! Hanapan mo ko!
oh cmon CC! your the man behind this tips! youre the man!-Right!?
ReplyDeleteit's YOU where we engine/googled this tips!
hehehehe...
AH GANUN! dats, i didnt invent the tips! i just wanna know!!! so what are your answers? =)
ReplyDelete- do you do blind dates?
ReplyDeletei like to... but haven't tried.
- do you have sex on the 1st date?
definitely No... but if there's a magic, why not. Can't say.
- do you have multiple dating partners or do you date 'exclusively' with one?
i tried dating 2 at the same night (one after the other)... hassle... but its ok to have multiple dates... that's why its called a "date" - we're in a search.
1. curious ako about blind dating at gusto ko itry. but get ready kasi baka maging anthony marentino and standford blatch ang mangyari. hahaha! that episode was so funny!
ReplyDelete2. why not if you hit it right on the first date? sex will still be sex even if you do it the on the 10th date. better yet be ready to get disappointed if you have sex on the 15th date and then i didnt turn out good. sayang lang. hahaha!
3. If i'm in a commitment, exclusive lang talaga. pero kung date lang at hindi pa kami, i can see other people naman siguro. there's a big difference between in a relationship and dating.
1. Not yet.
ReplyDelete2. Sometimes but not usually.
3. It depends. Many times the dates I have are one-event affairs so there's no exclusivity to speak of.
not single, but answering anyway...
ReplyDelete1. Used to. Yes.
2. Why not? Especially if there is no long term prospect (paksyet. pokpok talaga, folks).
3. Yes (Hindi rin vague, noh???) Seriously, the latter unless someone really special comes along.
So far:
ReplyDeleteQ1: all five are positive. 4 havent tried but are willing
Q2: why not - 3, sometimes - 1, try to delay - 2
Q3: no dates currently - 1, does multiple partner dating - 4
=)
thanks, people. on a separate post, ill answer those questions, too!
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ReplyDelete[1] I don't think I've ever really gone on a date date. And I don't want to date an invalid who can't read the check unless it's in Braille.
ReplyDelete[2] Since I've never gone on a date, no. Will I do it? If we're both consenting adults, why not? Will I ALWAYS have sex on the first date? No. But actually the chances of me having sex is FAR GREATER than me going on a date.
[3] Since I've never gone on a date... what the f**k am I answering this quick survey for?! LOL
Good day, CC! =)
Blind date
ReplyDelete>>> So far I havent experience blind date but why not? Im open to it as long the date is arranged by a friend
1st date Sex
>>> I had some dates like that if I feel we have an instant connection lets do it! and lets see what happens next :D
Dates
>>> Multiple dates? also known as dating, meeting new people, getting to know them & when I feel we have feelings for each other thats the time it become exclusive
mcvie. harharhar. but ill still count your vote!
ReplyDeletehey chris! thanks for answering. you are no. 7! will wait for some more responses!
1. I once wished I were blind on one date. hehe. But, no, haven't been into one. I would like to, but never had the chance. He must have at least a good recommendation form a friend, but I don't have much PLU friend, so no chance.
ReplyDelete2. I'm innately Maria Clara. But sadly all dates ended in bed, except for two. One became my bf, the other, will be giving me a puppy this weekend. But as always, my mind says "no, wait", but my bod says "yessss, fuck me pare."
3. Dunno why, but it has always been either El nino or La Nina for me. Either its drought time or its raining men. Its ok so long as you don't fall for more then one. :)
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yes to all three, actually used to. been keeping the hormones at bay since im already taken...
ReplyDelete-piscean-
;-)
1. i go on blind dates. some were actually fun and some not-so-fun.
ReplyDelete2. sex on first date - if both are willing then go.
3. multiple dating - yes, though i try to avoid places that i might see the previous dates.
pbb
is chatting a person and meeting him considered as a blind date?
ReplyDelete1. no to blind dates.
ReplyDelete2. yes on sex on first dates.
3. and yes to multiple dating. collect, connect, select.
1. can ebs be considered blind dates (kc minsan kahit may face pix na sya, eh gulat ka parin pag nakita mo ng personal, hehehe. so i guess i do blind dates
ReplyDelete2. seb, definitely! :)
3. i wish i had, para naman di ako mabato habang nag hihintay ng someone i can call my baby... haaayyy
Reading the answers to this survey is fun! My imagination is on overdrive.
ReplyDelete:-D
i close the survey and post the results! (and my own thoughts...)
ReplyDelete