elaboration on my stand on anal sex. after five rounds of beer.
its all a head trip for me. part of what gets me excited about 'bottoming' someone is this 'dominance-submission' fantasy. its power over another. its letting someone submit to one's desire. to be in full control. it's macho.
reality check. its icky. its ewww. it's still a shithole. it's a waste disposal channel. body trash. and it stinks. for good reason - it is waste. and i still cant get that out of my head. and my dick knows that. so my dick has to fight the ick factor. even with condoms. worse is when the smell hits you. then you realize what you've been poking your poor dick in.
turning the tables. ive bottomed. been there. done that. and it HURTS. really bad. my sphincter just tightens so much that a sudden thrust becomes agonizing pain. don't want to go through that.
so either way, top or bottom, i can have satisfying sex without... give me a great kisser and ive got great material. mutual masturbation - yeah i dont mind. blowjobs - the best. anal sex? can do without.
so maybe it's just in my head. but that's where the most important battles are won or lost in the first place. your head.
and when it comes to anal sex, none at all is a battle won in this generation.
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very true!
some guys do not have imagination to speak of. if there's no anal intercourse, they don't consider it as sex at all.
ugh.
amen, anonymous one!
i don't like anal either. it's never like in th pornos where they've douched and cleansed it. take rimming for example, it's really hot to watch in a porno, but when it's your turn, you go "you expect me to do what?!?!"
that's actually part of the reason i broke up with the ex.
Keep bottoming long enough and the pain will go away in due time. What comes next is pure bliss. I for one like the pain.
(Wow. that sounded poetic.) You can try being really drunk when bottoming if you're worried about el sakit.
g0y!
*being a top does require you not to be squeamish, I'll give you that. Especially when breaking someone in (pun intended?). :D
Anal sex can be good (esp with a little bit of preparation if you know what I mean). I am a lousy cocksucker; it does not take long before my jaw starts to hurt. My gag reflex is bad. Mutual masturbation is good (esp if there is an element of illicitness). It can be boring sometimes. The best sex I have is with myself and what's in my head.
thanks for this post cc!!!
and it's specially dedicated for me :)
unfortunately, there are not a lot of guys who can do without anal sex. they just expect that it's a given.
well, i better start looking, haha!
I so agree. I am not a goy but there is something with Anal Sex that turns you on or off depending on the mood. And yeah it really hurts.
I couldn't agree more. well said. :)
hi john! a kindred spirit! i actually never realized that i'd get this many people agreeing with me!
hey borg_queen! i actually wanted to get to that point with my ex. i told him to be patient and try every time. he got tired of the 'getting me to relax' script and decided to just bottom! hihihi
lobster! i bet you like breaking in!!! hmmp!
hiya quent! lousy c**ksucker? kinda unusual. hehehe. but who am i to judge! but you ended with the quote of the month: it's really what's in your head!
you are most welcome, london boy! i'd like to think that there are a lot who can do without it. it's just a matter of talking about it?
thanks, anonymous one!!! another kindred spirit!
and another one in you, joaqui_miguel!!
i guess it's a generation thing too. "my (or ours?..hihihi)" generation kasi was used to picking up our sex partners through actual conversations (verbal or otherwise), be it in a bar, or in the moviehouse, or on the streets....oftentimes, you only get to discover your partners preference and "talents" once you are in bed. and normally there is progression of how kinky things can get only after several encounters with the same sex partner... so there is a thrill of discovering a few pleasant "surprises" along the way. of course there are also disappointments, pero that's part of the bargain....AND anal sex isn't always the highlight of these encounters... as compared to the "high-tech" generation of today with their acronyms of PLU's, having M2M sex through EB's and SEB's to get their FUBU's usually through chats and texts....and even before they ever see eye to eye with their potential partners, established na who is going to be top or bottom or versa, and what they can "do" or are going to do once they are in bed, so wala ng surprises and bawas na ang thrill. and even if you are not really into anal sex, sometimes you give in to the idea kasi its discussed and out in the open na even before kayo magkita. haaaaayyyyy...ang kabataan talaga.... :-)
if i like the guy, pwede na fellatio...that means the rest are anal sex
this is my paninindigan waaaaaaaaaaaaa
very, very insightful, anonymous one! all spelled out now versus the joy of discovery then...
nice, ming meows! hehehe
get yourself a good kisser, and you can go on and on and on. but you cant exactly do anal non-stop. you dont even want to imagine how that would feel like:)
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