Tuesday, June 7, 2011

curious case

straight, goodlooking guys mid-30's looking for bromance?

first it was iggy. lately, it has been lloyd. he is a client i had a chance to chat with at length. and somehow established some kind of friendship. he joined me during one of my runs. and we had dinner after.

the discussion was largely work-related. but i did establish that he is married with kids. though the family is based abroad. just like iggy, lloyd is extremely attactive. and seems so eager to "keep in touch". the invite for coffee or to join me in my exercise regimen.

do i detect anything fishy? (may lansa ba?) honestly, nothing. wishful thinking would want me to detect something. the conversations are neutral. mostly business and work. of course they are aware im still single. and i just tell them im staying that way, married to my career. im sure they know that is just some smokescreen.

so what drives them to want to establish new friendships with someone who is possibly gay?

for those interested in the iggy series:
iggy 01, iggy 02, iggy 03, iggy 04

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Location:De Jesus Ave,Quezon City,Philippines

5 comments:

ONAI said...

maybe you're just too wary or stereotypical for you being Gay and having straight friends. You shouldn't. Why not chocnut?

Makii said...

who knows. probably there is really something.

or it's possible that he is just longing for attention since his family is not here.

mahirap mag assume so the safe thing to do is just always be cautious.

pero thrilling ang ganyang feeling :)

Anonymous said...

Well I think the main purpose of those married 30's client is to get corporate perks (advantage) over you...something to hold on to you so you wouldn't do any crazy/out-of-this-world stuff. secondary would be "easy" booty calls? Maybe...

Mot said...

Hey CC, been an avid reader of your blog. I guess there is no harm with straight guys befriending gay guys (whether they know it or not). Perhaps for them it is a breath of fresh air. I'm talking based on experience since I have more straight guy friends. Just enjoy their company (I know you are).

Anonymous said...

cguro business networking ang pakay nila, nabibigyan mo lang ng ibang kahulugan ang pagiging malapit nila sa iyo,