Wednesday, January 19, 2011

a new closet for the corpcloset




yeah. a new one. a closet that is not entirely unfamiliar. but something i have forgotten.

it's pc's closet, the family armoire.

i'm a non-entity there. one of the friends he keeps. under wraps.

i do understand why. he is like so many others, keeping this a secret from family. i was like that till i was 16yo.

it's like a new experience again. previous partners were comfortable enough about their life choices to introduce me to family (even if technically, they are still in the closet since being gay is never discussed). i got to know their families, their parents. and i felt welcomed. they genuinely liked me. and i'd return the favor by extending myself to them, supporting my partner's family first motto.

so this new closet will take some getting used to.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

How does it feel to be a non-entity when you are used to being involved with your partner's family and friends? Does it prevent you from experiencing your ideals of what a relationship should be like?

Noah G said...

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Anonymous said...

for sure the 'getting used to a new yet familiar closet' is a miniscule price to pay for the pleasure, er, treasure that pc is in your life right now.

esf