a friend hooked me up with a mid-20s chap looking for a date. after some online messaging, we moved to texting and finally meeting up for a date.
he looks fine, smart. but didnt show much interest over the salads and the pasta. at first. he tells me that he has been single for the past 6mos. and he's been dating.
after the date, the texts start becoming more frequent.
"i have decided to stop dating."
"i'd like to get to know you better."
"have you had lunch?"
"got plans later tonight?"
"i wanted to invite you to join me and my friends for movie."
i am suddenly feeling something tightening on my neck. a noose of some sort. am i being paranoid? or should someone tell him to put on the brakes?
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well, no one else will tell him that except you. there are many ways to do it...and the simplest...easiest...would be to sit him down and politely tell him what you really want.
or you can be a jerk and just not text him.
there's no harm on trying
you're right, anonymous one. i need to work up the courage to talk to him. sigh.
hi ming! it might get complicated if i 'try'.
i am suddenly feeling something tightening on my neck. a noose of some sort. am i being paranoid? or should someone tell him to put on the brakes? --- i guess you don't really like him that much hence the trepidation on your end. it will escalate into harrassment once this guy persists on communicating with you and you just "tremble" in fear not knowing what to do. work up that courage and tell him sorry but it just can't be. there are no sparks and you have too many people already on your christmas list.
bitchy ba?
happy new year!
- fenestrations
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