.. in a few days. should i greet him? send him an email or sms?
i don't harbor any grudges anymore. but i dont want to send wrong signals. ewww.
do i wish him a 'happy' birthday? yes, i do. i'm happier now. and he should be, too. i guess he is.
we're still not in the talking mode. so should i still be the peaceful one and send a greeting?
what do you think?
8 comments:
If you really want to greet him, then do so. Email might be the way to do it; sending a text message is a tad too personal. Just don't fret or lose your mind waiting for his reply.
do it. you'll feel better =)
seems you've found your peace sans the x. ganyan nga. kaya hanga ako sa iyo, you're truly an intelligent person, cc, not just intellectually (hello valedictorian!) but emotionally as well. while like everyone else you commit mistakes, you're, on the other hand, reflective, self-correcting, and self-renewing. sana paglaki ko, ganyan din ako :)
on your question "should i still be the peaceful one and send a greeting?" -- i believe so, yes. not because you are the better one (i don't know how the x is), but because it is just so natural for you to do so. you are peaceful, and you remembered him, and that's it. wala ng baga-bagahe.
and i know you will do it regardless of how you think he will respond.
yun lang. basta ang alam ko, maganda ka. go gurl!
I see nothing wrong with that. I greeted my ex on his birthday which came a month after our break-up. Not to say it's the right thing to do, but I think it shows that there are no ill-feelings. It's like saying, "oks lang ako and I wish you well." But not saying "I want you back." A simple "Happy Birthday!" will do. If he replies, eh 'di salamat. Kung hindi, oks lang rin.
hey pinoy contests. thanks.
hi migs. parang voice from the grave. JOKE. thanks for the compliments. and for the comment!
thanks, gbic! you'll be in town soon?
hello marco! salamat for the comment.
so far, all comments are for greeting ex. you guys are right. ill send him a message, by email. =)
Hi.... am a silent fan of your blog =)..been reading it and so far am enjoying it. i wonder if i have time to blog myself. keep on posting.... and always play safe.
Be honest to yourself.
No emotional baggage anymore, then send him a greeting.
On the other hand, if it comes with a lot of questions, hesitations, second-guessing, etc etc, then don't.
hi anonymous one! you should blog. make time for it.
and i will keep on posting! thanks! =)
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