you know, cc, IMHO, you're really not over your ex yet. sorry ha but that's how i feel.
i am surprised at the statement, coming from a close friend.
what made you say that?
well, you still get affected by things you hear about him.
yes, i do. but it's just that when i hear comments from him about he seems to flaunt his wealth to my friends, i react with 'eeewww' and some disgust. it's like 'does he really have to? isnt it just natural for me to react that way?
its not just that. you also mentioned how you found it weird that he addresses you very formally in his few communications with you. "dear mr. cc" "signed, mr. ex" it's like you get affected that he remains formal, cold and maybe even angry.
its not that per se. or maybe its because i expect him to normalize to civility since its been two years.
two years is not too long for a seven year relationship.
huh? you mean it's not enough?!
it really depends. but i wouldnt be surprised if you're not over him yet after two years.
sheesh. i hardly think about the guy.
it's not quantity. it's quality.
yeah, but i think about him only in the context of this ongoing business on separation of property, which is hardly ever. ok. sometimes i think about our life then. or the time we were still dating. only because im comparing how im feeling towards my dates now with how i felt then. what will it take for me to convince you that im over the guy?
not me. you dont need to convince me. you need to convince you.
i have this look of puzzlement. wow, after two years?! is that possible?
how do you know if you're over someone?
or how do you know if someone's not over an ex yet?