Sunday, July 12, 2009

is he flirting or what

1. he is in a relationship. happily married ika nga.
2. we met under business circumstances. and our first lunch out started with business talk.
3. however, the texts became less of business, more of pa-cute. i usually initiate the text-chat.
4. since i felt it was a futile exercise, i stopped the texts. and i didnt receive any from him either for almost a week.
5. i sent him a 'hello hope ur doin fine' text last sat (out of boredom, waiting for my next appt)
6. he quickly replied. and the text chat started again.
7. he asked that we do lunch again, whenever im in makati.

i like the guy. very much. but i didnt want to exert effort.
so i tried not to text. but i gave in anyway.
hibang. nahibang ako sa kanya.
now he wants to do lunch again.
i offered dinner. because i had more free time.
pwede rin, he answers.
is this flirting or just friendship?

6 comments:

dr magsasaka said...

Flirting.

Mac & Hubbee said...

i think there's an attraction to both. his is just more controlled as he knows where he is at, what it can cause him, in short, he uses his brains. a skill which few people has, especially for PLUs who are in a relationship. its the slightest form of flirting that he can do. maybe he's opening a door for friendship also so that he can keep things in his background. i dunno. random thoughts... what does your instinct tells you?

mackoy said...

flirting in a subtle way. hehe
sana nga lang you guys both know your limitations, complicated ang situation na ganyan...

Ming Meows said...

pagkahaba-haba man ng prusisyon, sa condo din ang tuloy..:)

Crap Newsman said...

Life is short. Go for it. You know you want to. ;)

Anonymous said...

hey it's my first time to leave a comment here, but been reading your blog for quite a few months now... this may well be an opportunity to find out more about him, who knows he may have some side in him peculiar to us PLUs but I think he is just friendly, I have encountered men like him, no strings attached. Just continue building that trust and maybe you will soon find out.