Wednesday, July 22, 2009

something must be wrong with him

how old is he? single? really? may itsura naman siya? hmm. something must be wrong with him.

i used to think that way of certain people i see or meet or even just hear about. working assumption: if you are such a catch, you must have been caught already.

now, as OSP (officially single person), im getting this paranoid thoughts. i wonder if people are thinking the same way about me. last weekend, i had a few drinks with some friends/acquaintances. one of them was asking about my status and was shocked (it looked genuine) to hear that i am single. huh? kaw single? pwede bang maging single si cc? my initial reaction was to be flattered. then as i thought about it, he might actually be thinking that there is something wrong with me. :(

then there's that other retort to this: single by choice.

yeah, im not in a hurry to get attached. making sure that the next relationship will be it.balloon thought: HA! is it really my choice? i've been choosing but my choices have been bad. if i could really 'choose', i choose to be attached, coupled, doubled!

hay. some early mid-week quirky thoughts. good day, people.

8 comments:

DollsAndSpooks said...

Don't worry, the right guy will come I am sure. Like me, I am still waiting, hopefully not in vain, hehehehe.


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gbic said...

another possibility: they think you're lying. it's happened to me. at walang gustong maniwala sa akin na wala talaga. buti na lang meron na =)

queerfaith said...

our world should not revolve nor affected by what other people say. it is what we do that should matter whether it is right or wrong.

Ming Meows said...

its actually: single, no choice!

Anonymous said...

cc: hope this is not a mid-life crisis thing. the more you think about it, the more it sounds like fate more than a choice.

i am kidding.

your blog is interesting. in a few issues too. :)

16 year old reader.

mackoy said...

things will surely fall in their right places at the right time.

trey said...

try saying "i've never had a relationship. ever."

welcome to my world.

closet case said...

i think ive stopped waiting...

wish i could say they thought i was lying, gbic. :(

hahaha. tama ka jan, M_M

it just may be mid-life eklavu. some people say life is 50% choice, 50% chance. thanks for finding the blog interesting!

hey, trey, ssb ka rin pala, tulad ni mcvie